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Friday, June 6th, 2008

The Once a Month book group

You see these smiling faces? This is the Once a Month book group in Lexington, North Carolina, one of the coolest book groups in the country. I know this because I talked to them on the phone this week. They had read A Piece of Normal and wanted to ask me questions about it. Before [...]

1 Comment » - Posted in books, fiction writing, fun by sandi

Tuesday, May 27th, 2008

Writing about love affairs

Well, it’s another day writing on the screened porch for me. Nice breezes, and the dogwood tree petals (now sadly spent) fluttering down onto the lawn like a mild snowfall, the kind you don’t have to shovel.
But it was a hard day just the same, because I’ve now reached the point in my novel where [...]

7 Comments » - Posted in fiction writing by sandi

Sunday, May 18th, 2008

Babysitting adventures in modern life

When I was young and used to make my living by babysitting, here is how things usually worked:
1. Someone called me on the phone and asked me to babysit.
2. I said yes.
3. At the appointed hour, I went to the house, and the parents left, while the children screamed and carried on as though [...]

7 Comments » - Posted in family, kids by sandi

Monday, May 12th, 2008

The first Mother’s Day without my mother

My mother wasn’t really a fan of Mother’s Day. She always said it was one of your hokier holidays–just filled up with enforced sentiment and guilt, and whether her kids remembered it or not was no big deal to her. But we did it up just the same, the way children love to do: breakfast in [...]

4 Comments » - Posted in crazy mothers, holidays, real life by sandi

Wednesday, May 7th, 2008

It’s good to have goals

It is just disgusting how some people never get around to writing on their blogs. I have so much to say and yet somehow, as my children remind me, I never seem to write any of it down. Why? Why? WHY?
Well, it’s because I am working on my new novel…and I’m now teaching two writing workshops [...]

5 Comments » - Posted in humor by sandi

Friday, April 25th, 2008

Cookin’ with teens

My friend Carol has more energy than most people. She’s written several books, about a million newspaper and magazine stories, AND she’s flown off to all parts of the world to make full-length, incredible documentaries. Plus, she volunteers in the school system and runs the Fairfield Writers Workshop where she teaches three classes a week. [...]

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Sunday, April 20th, 2008

When naming your own children isn’t enough…

“One of the best things about being a novelist,” said my friend Beth the other day, “must be that you get to use up all those names you couldn’t give to your kids. Or your dogs and cats.”
She’s right. Picking a name for a character is even more exciting than picking our child’s name, mainly because [...]

13 Comments » - Posted in procrastination, writing by sandi

Wednesday, April 16th, 2008

Blindsided by a Diaper: the musical

Do you remember when you first found out you were going to be a parent, and how suddenly the whole world seemed to have advice to throw at you? Did you have people saying, “Get ready for your life to suck” and warning you that you would never sleep again?
And did it seem to you [...]

3 Comments » - Posted in Events, kids by sandi

Sunday, April 13th, 2008

No one believes me when I tell this story…

On Friday, I came home to find my cell phone bill in the mailbox…and it was double the amount it usually is.
And just when we had decided to stop our wild, spendthrifty ways, too. We have had three months now of trying to be soooo careful–radical things like eating at home ALL THE TIME, canceling subscriptions we can [...]

9 Comments » - Posted in kids, real life by sandi

Wednesday, April 9th, 2008

The craziness of April

I know. I know. I’ve been a failure as a blogger lately. It’s not even because the New York Times, bless their hearts, has discovered that being a blogger is hazardous to your health and written this story about the dangers of it .I couldn’t bring myself to read the full article since I am very [...]

3 Comments » - Posted in Meta, dog, fiction writing by sandi