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Monday, May 12th, 2008

The first Mother’s Day without my mother

My mother wasn’t really a fan of Mother’s Day. She always said it was one of your hokier holidays–just filled up with enforced sentiment and guilt, and whether her kids remembered it or not was no big deal to her. But we did it up just the same, the way children love to do: breakfast in […]

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Wednesday, May 7th, 2008

It’s good to have goals

It is just disgusting how some people never get around to writing on their blogs. I have so much to say and yet somehow, as my children remind me, I never seem to write any of it down. Why? Why? WHY?
Well, it’s because I am working on my new novel…and I’m now teaching two writing workshops […]

5 Comments » - Posted in humor by sandi

Friday, April 25th, 2008

Cookin’ with teens

My friend Carol has more energy than most people. She’s written several books, about a million newspaper and magazine stories, AND she’s flown off to all parts of the world to make full-length, incredible documentaries. Plus, she volunteers in the school system and runs the Fairfield Writers Workshop where she teaches three classes a week. […]

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Sunday, April 20th, 2008

When naming your own children isn’t enough…

“One of the best things about being a novelist,” said my friend Beth the other day, “must be that you get to use up all those names you couldn’t give to your kids. Or your dogs and cats.”
She’s right. Picking a name for a character is even more exciting than picking our child’s name, mainly because […]

13 Comments » - Posted in procrastination, writing by sandi

Wednesday, April 16th, 2008

Blindsided by a Diaper: the musical

Do you remember when you first found out you were going to be a parent, and how suddenly the whole world seemed to have advice to throw at you? Did you have people saying, “Get ready for your life to suck” and warning you that you would never sleep again?
And did it seem to you […]

3 Comments » - Posted in Events, kids by sandi

Sunday, April 13th, 2008

No one believes me when I tell this story…

On Friday, I came home to find my cell phone bill in the mailbox…and it was double the amount it usually is.
And just when we had decided to stop our wild, spendthrifty ways, too. We have had three months now of trying to be soooo careful–radical things like eating at home ALL THE TIME, canceling subscriptions we can […]

9 Comments » - Posted in kids, real life by sandi

Wednesday, April 9th, 2008

The craziness of April

I know. I know. I’ve been a failure as a blogger lately. It’s not even because the New York Times, bless their hearts, has discovered that being a blogger is hazardous to your health and written this story about the dangers of it .I couldn’t bring myself to read the full article since I am very […]

3 Comments » - Posted in Meta, dog, fiction writing by sandi

Wednesday, March 26th, 2008

Blame, and the novel in the middle of the night

My novel misbehaves in the middle of the night. Last night it woke me up with a start at 2:14 a.m., insisting that I get up out of bed and FIND MY NOTEBOOK and a pen QUICKQUICKQUICK, which are not easy things to locate in the dark at somebody else’s house. (I have been visiting Boston for […]

8 Comments » - Posted in family, kids, writing by sandi

Friday, March 14th, 2008

Come to a writing conference!

[ April 5, 2008; 9:30 am to 4:30 pm. ] My writer friends, Alice Mattison, Leslie Connor, and I are giving an all-day writing conference together, and I couldn’t be more excited. If you’re anywhere near Fairfield, Connecticut on April 5, and you want to get a chance to talk about writing all day long…please come!

Here’s the notice about it that the organizer, Carol Dannhauser, […]

3 Comments » - Posted in Events by sandi

Thursday, March 13th, 2008

Google Talk: out of the mouths of babes

 

Have you met Google Talk?
I have to admit: I’m on it all the time, whether I want to be or not. It’s the main way I write my novel AND talk to my kids all at the same time. Sort of like major multi-tasking.
I’m getting used to having the little screen […]

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