Thu 26 Jun 2008
Procrastination, vanquished? Well, maybe. I mean, YES!
Posted by sandi under procrastination, real life, self-improvement, writing
I do not know why it’s so tough to do the things I need to do. (I think we all know what we’re talking about here: settling down to work, performing the yoga stretching exercises, paying bills, cleaning the dehumidifier, weeding the garden, flossing the dog’s teeth, washing the bath towels…that sort of thing.)
I have a sign up over my desk that says: “Hard work may pay off in the long run, but procrastination pays off RIGHT NOW.”
This is a bad attitude, I know. I should take it down and replace it with something like: “What? Do you think time is going to wait for you to get around to the things you need to do?” or better yet, something succinct like: “GET TO WORK!”
There are times when the only way I can get anything done is when I do something by accident while I am procrastinating from doing something else. In other words, I can only wash the bath towels if I’m, for instance, hiding from settling down to work. And the garden is only going to get weeded if I’m avoiding flossing the dog’s teeth. (No, I don’t really floss the dog’s teeth–but you know what I mean.) And as for yoga stretching–that just ain’t gonna happen.
But I hate being this way. I am too damned old to be avoiding things this way. I should have developed some true self-control by now. Shouldn’t I? My yoga teacher once told me that I should see this resistance, as he called it (that’s a fancy yoga word for procrastination) as the same as a paper sheet. All I have to do is press against it a little bit, he said, and I would break through–and find myself doing the downward dog without even a second thought.
Then yesterday I ran across this post by Allison Winn Scotch, about how she has beat procrastination! Her advice seems so simple, and yet so profound at the same time:
Something flashes in my brainscan and rather than waste the energy of thinking of when I could do it another time, I just did it! I wrote three blog posts, I started going through my proof pages, and best of all, I actually sat down - right when the impulse struck - and drafted the first scene for my new book.
It was so energizing! I can’t recommend this more. Normally, I’m a list-maker - I jot everything down and axe it as I go. But right now, it seems like the only way for me to accomplish stuff is to seize the moment. Try it! It might work for you!
Okay, I am so on board with this. I am seizing the moment! That means…writing this sex scene that has been eluding me for days and days. I know. Poor me, having to think up a sex scene. It’s not like I have to go weed the garden or even do the downward dog.
But I’m about 25 pages behind schedule in this novel…and by God, I’m going to catch up this weekend! I am not only going to seize a moment. I’m am seizing the whole entire weekend.
Allison, THANK YOU!





June 26th, 2008 at 9:54 pm
Boy, do I know what this feels like - I am a horrible procrastinator.
Just do it! I believe I’ve heard that slogan somewhere
Maybe I should try it sometime.
June 27th, 2008 at 11:02 am
Procrastinating? Gee, I don’t know what you mean. Just because I’m supposed to be cleaning house, returning emails, and writing all day today, and instead I’m reading blogs. Nope. No idea. Oh, and did your poster perchance come from Despair.com? I LOVE that site! It cracks me up every time. Good luck with getting caught up, and with the sex scene.
June 27th, 2008 at 12:58 pm
As I write this I should be working.
Anyway, I’ve found I work better when I don’t have a schedule to adhere to. Inspiration doesn’t work 9-5.
Reminds me of the scene in “Stranger than Fiction” when Emma Thompson’s character figures out how to finish her novel on a trip to the store to get cigarettes.
June 29th, 2008 at 11:06 am
You’ve inspired me, Sandi. I’m going to sit down, finish this book, and not let other projects get in the way. Thanks! I mean it.
June 29th, 2008 at 1:11 pm
The equivalent method for me is to simply stop THINKING so much! Inevitably, I enter into a little negotation with myself and before I know it, I’ve rationalized my way into non-action.
Here’s the thing that gets to me about procrastination: In essence, I’m always breaking promises to myself. Would I put up with a friend who breaks promises to me each and every day? No, I wouldn’t! So why do I do that to myself?
(I’m overthinking as I sit here typing: I’d promised myself I’d write five first-draft pages this weekend. ARGH!)
June 29th, 2008 at 9:52 pm
Wow, so many procrastinators among us! I guess it’s the creativity disease. Spencer, I completely agree with you that creativity doesn’t work 9-5. Mine, in fact, seems to turn on about the time I’m falling asleep. The whole movie of my book starts flashing before my eyes, and I have to lug my sorry self out of bed and write it down before I forget it.
Julie, I’m going to be waiting to hear how you do! It really HAS helped me, that just-do-it thing.
Lisa, I love the overthinking response. It is sooo tempting to rationalize it all, isn’t it? Meanwhile pages need to be written. Ah, well…
June 30th, 2008 at 3:13 pm
I so envy those people who can just do something. Me, I can find seven other things on the way to do what I’m supposed to be doing. Sigh…
July 2nd, 2008 at 6:37 pm
Taking deep breath, plugging nose and jumping in…tomorrow. (Baby steps for me.)
However, I do work well on the reward system, so maybe I’ll go find a carrot instead. Covered in chocolate with chopped pecans and M&Ms. Without the carrot.
And good luck with catching up on your novel! Let us know how it goes!
July 3rd, 2008 at 5:07 pm
Susan, you have exactly identified what happens to me–I find new things to do on my way to do the thing I mean to do! I really do think I may need to figure out a sensory deprivation chamber. Wasn’t it Jonathan Franzen who wrote The Corrections while blindfolded and perhaps tied to his desk? I think I could manage that, but I’d possibly start cleaning out my drawers before I could find a suitable blindfold.
And Pam! Thanks for visiting! Rewards work on me very well, too. Carrots would never be enough, however.