Fri 20 Apr 2007
How long since you’ve seen somebody who is fifteen whole minutes old?
This is Miles, who is kicking back as he celebrates his first-quarter hour of life in the world–and Allie, his mother, who is just amazed by him. If you’ve ever had a baby, you know just what she is thinking: So this is who has been kicking my ribs for the past few months! It’s YOU!
You can see that they’ve already pretty much committed to each other and are in love…and I, who got to be present during the labor and birth, helping Mike, her husband, as we both held her elbows and said things like, “You can do it! You’re almost there!” have finally been able to stop sniffling every time I think of that moment when he came out into the world, looking around in surprise at everyone there to meet him: his mom, his father, the midwife, the nurse, and me.
He is the first person, besides my own children, that I got to see actually being born. Words are so inadequate to describe what it was like. Just so stunning and humbling and unbelievable…see? I should stop with the words. There aren’t words.
Let’s just say that I cried. Later I got to sit in the rocking chair there in the birthing center and rock him for a while, and he stared up at me with those hazy big navy blue eyes, and he was calm and serene. He seemed to bring with him his own sense of peace and quiet.
Already he’s showing signs of being a wise person. For one thing, he came one week early, just so he could avoid what in our family is the April Birthday Logjam taking place next week, when four of us have our birthdays all piled on top of each other. (People always have teased us for being very clever in managing to all be born right at the same time, but in fact who needs a whole week in which you have to make–and eat–at least four birthday cakes! I know, I know…some people will complain about anything, won’t they?)
But little Miles picked April 14th, which was a sunny spring day in New York City. Tulips and magnolia trees and forsythia were blooming everywhere. Then, the next day, once he’d gotten safely home, a huge nor’easter raged outside. We hardly noticed.
So life is good, and I am home again, back to work on my book–wasn’t I writing a book before all this happened? I think so!
I think I’m going to give all my characters new babies.





April 20th, 2007 at 8:55 pm
Congratulations! Babies are such blessings. My goddaughter was born on April 14th (4yrs ago).
He is absolutely beautiful Sandi! My best to you and your whole family. Enjoy!
April 20th, 2007 at 9:42 pm
I’m not sure which one of those kids is cuter. So happy to hear this nice news –
April 21st, 2007 at 6:31 am
Congratulations, Sandi. What a beautiful grandson.
Yes, they do like they are committed to each other. Miles look incredibly bright and ready to learn about the world he just came into.
April 21st, 2007 at 11:06 am
Mazel Tov!!!!! Miles (and Allie) look so amazingly beautiful. The reason I am a maternity nurse, and my first love is labor and delivery, is because I’ve never gotten past my incredible awe of the beauty and power of birth. And I love holding the baby who is minutes old. They are such amazing creatures!
BTW, Miles is a great name. It also happens to be Ean’s middle name.
Enjoy grandma-hood.
April 21st, 2007 at 3:46 pm
Sandele! Mazel tov!! You are the coolest grandma ever.
April 21st, 2007 at 7:39 pm
Congratulations! Are you old enough to be a grandma?! I was present at the birth of a friend’s son and, like you, I was crying without realizing the tears were flowing. Birthing my own five children was incredible and empowering. Watching the process from another point of view is a different, beautiful miracle.
When your characters have their babies, can one of them have a husband who breezes through the pregnancy with nonchalance and then freezes during labor? You know, noncommunicative and spacey, unwilling to go back to the car for the yoga music and CD player?! (thanks in advance
Chrissy
April 22nd, 2007 at 11:29 am
Congratulations to you and Jim and the rest of your family, Sandi! Miles is beautiful, and he’s blessed with such a great family.
April 22nd, 2007 at 11:32 am
Wow, thank you so much for all your good wishes and congratulations. It truly has been an astonishing thing.Now that I’m back at home, I need multiple updates each day, and it’s still not the same. Allie says he’s a very calm baby, just happy to be here.
And thank you, Chrissy–no, LOL, I’m NOT old enough to be a grandma. But it’s still the most fun job ever!
June 8th, 2007 at 12:02 am
Oh, wow. Just today, my mother sent me a box that contained one of my gourmet shoeboxes (as I like to call them) filled with memorabilia from elementary school. I can’t believe that Allie, the same girl posed against the brick wall at Hooker in the “What’s Cool?” article has a baby– and a beautiful one at that! Congratulations and love to all of you!
June 8th, 2007 at 10:39 am
Marcail just forwarded this to me — what a blessing for all of you — I just lost my mother and your comments made me smile and cry at the same time — she was right there for me at Marcail’s birth — wonderful memories to bond with. Allie, you look joyous! Congratulations.